Woman of virtue!

Ladies, ladies, ladies...
We've been, some of us, way to many times around the mountain of self pity, anger, unforgiving and suffering.  Do we really want to constantly go around that same mountain again.
Let go of the list!  What list do you think I'm referring too?  I'm talking about that list that you bring up when you are upset at someone close to you, and we have to remind that person of how they disappointed us twenty years ago.  We do this with the pride of seemingly making ourselves perfect in comparison to others. 
Just because we suffered in the past does not mean we need to remain in the past.
Change your today, become a woman of virtue!
Become a woman who does not become so easily offended at everything you hear. 
If you are married, have you ever noticed that you can tell your husband something today and the same day they most likely don't remember it.  We on the other hand will keep an account of every single thing our spouse tells us.  Unfortunately for our spouse that list comes out despite of the passing years.
Peace comes with the price of not wanting to be right all the time.  Sometimes your silence can be more admirable than the cruel words that may come out of your mouth. 
I speak from my own self experience.  I used to spend so many moments of my early married life with my lists and it never brought any peace into my marriage.  I had to make a decision that i needed to do what was best for me and the most difficult part was to make the decision to actually let go of the past.
Let go and you will find liberty!